Finding Peace Part 2: Come With Me
Peace does not come from carrying every outcome alone. It comes from inviting the Divine into even the smallest, most ordinary moments of your day, and trusting you are accompanied there.
Finding Peace Part 1: The Unglamorous Truth About Feeling At Ease
Peace is not something that arrives on its own. It is built through the daily, unglamorous work of turning toward the parts of yourself you would rather avoid, one honest moment at a time.
Pick Your Hard
There is a question hiding inside most of the big questions, and it rarely has anything to do with what you think you are deciding. This is about learning to name which hard is actually yours, and choosing it with your eyes open.
The Four Words I Didn’t Know I Needed to Hear
One morning, four simple words from God stopped me in my tracks: "Take Me with you." What followed was a quiet invitation back to the one practice that requires no perfection - only the willingness to return.
The Lie They Handed You
You have been told a lie — that the parts of you reaching for relief or control are proof something is wrong with you. They are not problems to fix. They are responses waiting to be met.
When Grief has More Than One Voice
"We do not have a single, unified response to loss. We have parts - all at once, all equally real, none of them wrong."
NNN Series: What Your Inner Perfectionist Is Really Trying to Do
Your perfectionist isn't the enemy. It's scared. And it's been fighting for your life, alone, for a very long time. What if it didn't have to anymore?
Resurrection: It May Mean Something Different Than You Think
What if the way out of your suffering was never through it — but toward it? The ancient story of Kuan Yin holds a truth about healing that most of us were never taught.
You Know Yourself. So Why Can’t You Change?
Insight is not the finish line. It is the starting line — and what comes next requires not more analysis, but more meeting.
What Actually Happens In a Notice. Name. Nurture. Session?
What if the next step wasn't more figuring but a little more listening? Step inside a Notice. Name. Nurture. session and see exactly what happens when you stop managing your parts and start meeting them.
Notice, Name, Nurture Part 3: Loving Every Part of You
You named the parts of you that show up. You noticed them with curiosity. Now comes the part that, in my experience, asks the most of us — and gives the most back: Nurture.
Meet the Committee: The Surprising Power of Naming Your Inner Parts (NNN Part 2)
There's more than one voice running around inside you — and they've been meeting without proper introductions for a very long time. Naming your inner parts is how you finally say hello.
Notice, Name, Nurture — Part One: The Art of Noticing
We cannot love what we do not notice.
Notice. Name. Nurture. A Different Way to Be With Yourself.
People ask me sometimes how I manage to seem so peaceful. The truth is, I learned how to meet the most ugly, hateful, selfish, angry, shameful, disgusting parts of myself with love and care and that made all the difference.
The Anatomy of a “Show Me”
A Show Me is not a demand dressed up in spiritual language. It is an invitation. You are opening a door and saying to Love, to the Great Goodness, to whatever name fits your relationship with the Divine — I am willing to receive something I might not be able to see on my own. Show me.
Before You Ask, Check Your Body
Before you ask, check your body. If there is ease — a sense of openness, of "yes, I could receive that" — your invitation is sized right. If there is tightening, your invitation needs to be adjusted. This is not failure. This is information.
When It Feels Like You — But Isn’t
You have done the work. And still something persists — because not everything that feels like you is yours to heal.
What's Really Blocking Your "Show Me"
The block is almost never about God. It is almost always about a part of you that has not yet been heard.
You Are Already Home: Building Sanctuary From the Inside Out
The most sacred sanctuary is not a place you find — it is a place you build, right there in your own precious heart. And it is already waiting for you.
When the Weight Feels Like You: Recognizing Spiritual Interference
Interference doesn't have to be dramatic to be effective — it only has to dull you. What if some of what you've named as identity is actually interference?